Tuesday, September 25, 2018

Cosby

Today is the day when Bill Cosby is sentenced to served 3-10 years in prison for sexual assault. The crime is almost unthinkable, that a man with Cosby’s gifts and graces would drug women and then have sex with them, rape them. I can’t even get to the question of why a married man would act this way. I can’t get passed the question about sex and our culture. We are so mixed up sexually. For many, sex seems to be this dirty thing, rather than the creative gift of God that it is. So much of our violence and pain and shame are acted out in sex crimes.

But, even more than all that today is the stunning realization that Bill Cosby was/is a predator and will go to prision. Many of us remember Bill Cosby as the great mentor and leader. He was a commedian of the highest order. We still own an album (vinyl) on which is Cosby’s retelling of the story of Noah. It’s absolutely hilarious and brilliant. It deals with a difficult scriptual passage and brings it to life.

Or, maybe you remember Cosby on the TV show “I spy”. Or, maybe you remember the TV show that my family and me never missed in which Cosby is Dr. Huxtable. He appears on screen as this loveable, wise, father and husband who is faithful. His humor comes through everything.

Cosby was a PHD. He promoted education and supported teachers. He chided those who did not take their role in family and community seriously enough. He was a example to be followed.

One of my favorite snippets from his book “Fatherhood” is one about sibling fighting. Cosby said that when two sibling are fighting they come to their father to settle it. They make their case and the father tells them to go to their room. Cosby says that the children think the father is interested in justcie, but the father is interested in peace and quiet.

Today, Cosby has fallen from grace. It’s almost too much to take in. He has done so much good, but left behind so much pain and suffering that he caused. It’s never right to take advantage of another human being. It’s never right for a man to rape or abuse or assault a woman. Never.

Sure, we’ll get over this just as we have absorbed the failures of others in the past. We will get over it just as we have gotten passed the sins of other men against women, other sinners. But, how much more grateful we should be for those men who treat women with the respect they deserve, as they gift that they are. How blessed are those men who are faithful to family and friends and church and God. May these be the men that we follow and emulate.

We have this treasure in earthen vessels to show that the transcendent power belongs to God and not to us. In human flesh is the treasure of God’s love, the Gospel of Jesus Christ. I pray for Bill Cosby today and for all the victims of his recklessness. Where sin abounds, grace may much more abound.

Blessings!
Dave Nichols

Thursday, August 23, 2018

Lex Talionis

I just watched a pretty good movie called: Lucky Number Slevin. It’s the story about a guy who, when he was a boy, lost his mother and father. His dad was a bad gambler always looking for the next winner. He played the horses one time too many and bet $20,000 with mobsters and he lost. He had inside info on a particular horse and something happened and the horse lost. The bad guys came to his house and killed his wife, tortured and killed him. And, even the bad guys couldn’t kill the little boy who looked to be about eight years old. They called in a professional assasin.

The assasin could do it either. He tried but couldn’t do it. So, he took the boy and raised him in his ways. Now, you don’t find out until nearly the end that that’s who this guy is. But, he goes after the bad guys who killed his family, with the help of his keeper. He killed the bad guys and more. He lived his whole life waiting on the time when he would take revenge on these bad guys.

It’s the way of the world, isn’t it. Someone does you wrong; you have a right to get them back. Lex Talionis is the law: A eye for an eye; a tooth for a tooth. When the Jews came to this law it was a step forward from the blood shed of their day. It meant only one eye for one eye and nor more. It meant only one tooth for one tooth and not more.

Most of us are happy with the revenge idea. The bad guys should just get what’s coming to them. Then, Jesus comes along and ruins it. Doesn’t he do that often? He says: “Love your enemies. Do good to them that hurt you...”. Let the bloodshed stop with you. It has to stop somewhere.

I’m praying about and thinking my way through the awful stuff that has come out of the Catholic Church lately. I’m listening to the demands for justice. I’m sure there is some need to see revenge and you can understand it. I can understand it. Hurt like that, sexual, done by the church’s pastors is difficult to get over.

I have counseling some who have been sexually abused as children, not by priests, but by a parents or someone close. I can tell you that this grave sin damages a person for life. Add God and priests to the mix and you get a real mess, a life that is nearly destroyed before it gets started. I say that justice is the last that we can expect from the church.

What would justice look like? Right now, the statute of limitations covers such acts as far as the law goes, but shouldn’t the church dismiss all those who had any part is this sin. Give them a church trial and take their right to practice as the church’s representative. Acknowlege publicly what has been done; confess the sins. As often happens the coverup becomes as evil as the sin.

I don’t think these dear souls are looking for revenge. They want justice which would be a form of mercy for the victims. The greatest sin of all is to pretend that these sins didn’t happen.

Revenge is wrong but justice is only right. I pray for all those who are working through this. May God forgive those who hurt and maimed in his name.

Blessings!
Dave Nichols

Wednesday, May 30, 2018

Rosanne? What?

The TV Show Rosanne was back for a time a short time. I was never really a Rosanne fan the first time around, though we did watch the show some. She was always brash and harsh. It was supposed to be blue-collar comedy that hit hard and revealed the hard lives of many who go unnoticed in this country. It did a good job of that then.

I never wached this time around. I heard, like many of you, about the pro-Trump stuff. It was watched by many to start with, but then the twitter incident happened. Does Twitter just invite this kind of stuff? If often wish that the President would think a bit more before tweating out every though and idea in the middle of the night. Now, Rosanne tweets something that is just awful. I kept hearing that she had said something reprehensible, then I finallyr read the tweet. Wow!

You’ve got to be kidding me! Are people still saying and believing this kind of stuff? OK. Even if it was a joke, doesn’t it cross some kind of humane line or something?

Today, I saw that Rosanne was trying to take it back. And, like anyone trying to take something back that they said, she is finding that that’s hard to do. She said it was a joke, and she was on ambien. She says this as if there’s some kind of excuse for this kind of racist talk, as if somehow it justifies her comments.

Now, after some time, ABC has cancelled the show.

At least there are repercussions for talking like this. Sure, it’s free speech but even free speech has its conseqences. You can’t just say anything and get away with it. Mean, hateful, hurtful, and racist speech is still wrong and should be condemned.

As Christians, I don’t see how we can think any other way. It does bother me a bit that maybe our people do not remember or know our history. It bothers me that someone could have grown up in this country and been educated in our schools and lived through civil rights and all the rest, and not know or care that this kind of language is wrong because it treats people as less than human. If everybody is created in the image of God, then everyone deserves the respect and love of others.

Anyone with any feeling at all who reads through the racist literature of the past can see it reflected still in such tweets and language. It’s disgusting.

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. If you talk and act like this tweet of Rosanne’s, you’re certainly not much of a Christian if at all. Followers of Jesus Christ are people who in to life and love and truth in Jesus Christ. Christ died for all.

So, Rosanne, take responsbility for your words. And, ask for forgiveness. This kind of speech will not stand. It’s like building your house on sand. The winds come, and the rain, and the storms, and...

”I have made of one blood all nations...”. The Book of Acts.

Blessings!
Dave Nichols

Wednesday, May 9, 2018

MOVEMENT IS IN THE AIR

As a United Methodsit preacher, I always get a little nervous this time of year, even though I have been at my present appointment for 12 years. And, we don’t move like they used to move. But, every year as we approach Annual Conference, some are packing and hiring movers and getting ready to say goodbye to the place where they are. Soon, they will stand in a new pulpit and a new place. They will move into a new home.

I, and my dear wife and family, have moved seven times and we are getting ready for our last move to retirement. After 12 years in the same place, I’m remembering why I don’t like moving. There’s just so much to do to get ready to move, and if you’re going to another church appointment you’re gearing up for another challenge.

The Methodist way of itineracy goes way back to Father John himself who logged many miles on horseback. But, we’re in the modern world now and it somehow seems obsolete. There are so many needs to consider, so many people in the process. Our system in which we move one pastor out on one Sunday and the next Sunday there is another pastor at the church has always seemed “out of date” to the surrounding denominations who “call” their preachers.

United Methodist preachers are indeed called by God, but the Bishop appoints us to our place of service. We agree to that at ordination, though some forget it in the heat of battle. Most, however, go willingly to a new place. We all somehow still believe that God is in on this and that God goes ahead of us. We are sent.

There’s something very special about the fact that we are sent. We don’t get to pick our place of service. How utterly Biblical for God to appoint us to our place of service.

I have been so blessed to have been sent to some great churches. God was present in all of them, though it was harder to see God in some of them. Some of my friends have not been as blessed. I can remember listening and praying with friends who were going to appointments that they believed would be harmful. Most all of them survived, by the grace of God.

There is an old story about a preacher at Annual Conference in SC back when the appointments were acutally read out loud in front of God and everybody. The bishop read the appointment and one brother stood up and said: “We’re ruined Elizabeth!” Sometimes going to a place that we do not know or really want to go to can be difficult. We are a little like Abraham who went out not knowing where he was to go.

I would not have chosen a single appointment that I have served, but I would not take anything for having served every one. In each church and place, there was much of God’s work to do. And, there was always grace.

So, to all my brothers and sisters who are packing up now, I say: “Good for you! God is with you wherever you go!” It’s a daunting task to risk ministry, but nothing is more rewarding.

Go. Go in peace! The one who came to us in Jesus comes now to speed you on your journey. So be it.

Blessings!
Dave Nichols

Monday, February 26, 2018

Billy Graham

You know that Billy Graham died recently. His life and his death had a huge impact on many people all over the world. One church member/friend recently said to me: “What about Billy Graham’s death?” I said: “Well, he was 99 years old.” I was thinking that was a great long life. He said: “It’s sad.” He wasn’t saying that it was sad that a 99 year old died. I think I heard him saying rather that with Billy Graham’s passing there was the passing of an era, a time, a ministry that spanned generations. OK. I get that.

I can remember sitting in front of the television with the whole family when I was a boy watching and listening to Billy Graham. Even as a boy, he was good TV, and I mean it in a good way. He was a captivating, engaging, charismatic preacher of the Word. He included humor and story, and he had the authority of a prophet from the Bible. Many people owe their spiritual birth, or conversion, to Billy Graham.

In fact, many of our churches were blessed by people who were brought to Christ in that dramatic moment when it seemed the whole world was singing: Just as I am without one plea!

Dr. Graham came along at a time when television was being born. And, younger people laugh when I say this: there were only three channels to choose from. So, we all watched much of the same stuff. We all watched the man on the moon land. We all watched JFK get shot. We all watching MLK march and lead and then die. No, we didn’t watch all the same programs, even then. There were three options. But, much of the major stuff we saw together.

So, when Billy Graham took the Gospel to television, it was a new thing. In fact, it was a new thing to take his whole ministry to the air waves. And, to hand out an 800 number that you could call and get counseling and literature, free.

While many felt that Dr. Graham was not as prophetic as he ought to be in civil rights and other issues, I felt he was a part of that great American ideal that says that there are some things that transcend politics . Of course, nothing transcends politics now. Ha! He avoided the political rancor of partisan politics but he also embraced African-American leaders and taught and preached a Gospel that was a call to all people. A lot of people got upset when he stood with Nixon, but I can hear Graham saying it now: “We’re all sinners.”

So, for me, my faith came through the church and my family. We loved Billy Graham; there was no reason not to. He was a towering figure and in many ways he was, as some call him, the Protestant Pope. We will miss that towering figure who stood with presidents in times of crisis. Who can forget his presence at the National Cathedral after 9-11?

We wish his family well in the days ahead. And, we give thanks to God for this servant who kept his integrity in an age when many fell prey to a consumer mentality. His goal was not to be rich, but to be faithful to his calling to preach Jesus Christ and him crucified.

A good thing to remember and foster during this Season of Lent!

Blessings!
Dave Nichols

Tuesday, January 30, 2018

A Wild Epiphany

It’s been a wild Epiphany so far. Well, maybe not wild, but it has been unusual. January 6 is Epiphany Day, when Christmas Season is over. On this day we read about Matthew’s versioin of the visit of the Magi to see Jesus. They follow a star. So we used January 7 as that day, Epiphany Sunday. It would have ordinarly been Baptism of the Lord Sunday, which comes usually as the first Sunday after Epiphany.

We celebrated January 14 as Baptism of the Lord Sunday because our congregation has such a good time renewing their baptismal covenant. It’s very moving to see the whole congregation come forward to the baptismal font. They either look at the reflection in the water, touch the water, or put some water on their forehead, then they kneel at the altar. It’s an exciting, moving, time when we remember our baptisms.

And, in the church’s historical sense, to remember is much more than just call to mind. We do that, of course, but to remember is to enter in to the experience. We can’t be re-baptized; that’s a once in a lifetime experience, but we can experience again the newness of grace and love. While we sing Amazing Grace, we all come down to the altar. Did I say that it’s very moving?

Then, the Season after Epiphany revs us and on the next Sunday, January 21, Jesus is out there calling disciples: “Follow me.” And last Sunday, Jesus was in synagogue teaching away when a man with demons shouts: “What have you to do with us, Jesus of Nazareth?” Mark says it’s astounding and amazing. This is a new teaching that stills the voices within us that possess and destroy us.

Even in Worship, we are accosted by the demons, and the devil. Maybe especially in worship, we are under attack by Satan. But, Jesus intrudes into our lives and stills the storms and the demon voices, and sets us free.

I just saw the movie: “The Greatest Showman”. It was fastastic story about P. T. Barnum and his circus. He chooses a young man to become his partner. The young man comes from a very wealthy and landed family. The young man says: “If I go with you, I risk losing everythying.” Barnum says: “Yeah!! And you might just find out what it’s like to be free.”

Come with me, says Jesus, and you will be free. Jesus is amazing, says Mark.

What have you to do with us, Jesus of Nazareth? Jesus answers: “I have everything to do with you, everything!”

In Epiphany, Jesus and his kingdom move out intot he world. The light of the world lights up the world, and calls us to go with him.

There are only a few more Sundays left in Epiphany Season. I said it was wild this year. It happens fast and then it’s gone, and we’re in to Lent.

Everybody’s saying how the church is passing away. But, I say, Jesus is still out making himself a people. Is Jesus talking to you today: “I have everything to do with you!”

Blessings!
Dave Nichols

Tuesday, December 12, 2017

ADVENT?

I noticed the other day in the newspaper (that thing that comes out on paper every day or so- remember?) that even some of the non-liturgical churches are celebrating Advent. Not all, mind you, but some of the more open, see the benefit to the call of the church to prepare for Christ. Time was when some churches regarded candles as evil since they reminded them of other churches. Are there some who still feel that way?

I am glad to see that Advent is more universally recognized by churches. But, the culture is having no part of it, of course. This year, even before Halloween which is a big cultural holiday, by October 1 commercials were running on TV with Christmas themes.

Certainly, we all understand this. Since so much of the income for retail stores comes around Christmas then why not extend the notion of Christmas and therefore, Christmas spending. I get that. Employees get paid; the stores thrive; and they have enough to last the rest of the year. Nothing wrong with a thriving economy, though I could say something about our over-spending. That will wait for another day.

Advent is the season of just four Sundays before Christmas. Each Sunday has a theme, and we light a candle on the Advent Wreath to mark our steady movement toward the “coming” of the Christ. While the whole culture is saying: “Get busy; speed up; go fast.” The church is trying to say: “Slow down, for God’s sake!”

Slow down, reflect, think, pray, give, and remember the Lord you God. Children help with this, of course. With eyes wide open and ears perked, children give us some of the excitement of waiting and expecting.

Those of us who are adults are likely to have become jaded. That is, we are tempted to put it all down to a great cultural spasm. It’s so easy to get into a life of no expectation. It is what it is. That phrase covers a whole host of situations in life, situations over which we have no control. Even Christians are tempted to lose hope over the way things are. It’s easy.

Advent is a call to wait and pray and expect that the God of Jesus is on the move. Only those who truly have faith can see angels and hear angel choruses. Only those with faith in this God can know the joy of the presence of God with us.

So take a little time to work it out, to work through what it all means for you. And, keep your eyes open for the God who moves in history, will move in history, and will bring the Kingdoms of this world into his Kingdom. It’s enough to make you sing: Joy to the world!

Blessings!
Dave Nichols

Thursday, October 12, 2017

500 YEARS

This year October 31 marks the 500 anniversary of the beginning of the Protestant Reformation. On this day, All Hallow’s Eve, Martin Luther, a German monk, nailed his 95 theses to the door of Wittenberg Cathedral. It was a university community where ideas were often debated; so, Luther added his own ideas to the mix of the discussions.

As with anything happening in the church, nothing happens in isolation. What happens in the culture affects the church and what happens in the church affects the culture. Many of the nations of Europe were making moves toward independence from Rome; Germany was among them. So, many were questioning the practices of the Holy Roman Catholic Church.

Also, the printing press had been invented and it made it possible to put out volumes of printed material for everyone to read. To this point, only Priests and teachers had access to the Bible, mostly in Latin. It was not available to the average person. With the printing press, the scriptures were made available in the language of the people for the first time in history. Everyone could read their own Bible.

Even to this day, this has led to many abuses as anyone may make their own interpretation of the scripture without benefit of scholarship or commentary. But, the benefit of having scripture in your own hands is such a gift.

The Protestant Reformation with Martin Luther was founded on several notions. One, had to do with justificaiton. Martin Luther said that we are justified before God by faith alone. It was a swipe at the tradition of the church and the other requirements that were laid on Christians. No, said Luther, it’s about faith in God in Christ. Faith alone.

There were other sillier notions that one could buy one’s relatives or friends from purgatory. The jingle went: “When the coin in the coffer rings, the soul from purgatory springs.”

Catholics celebrated seven sacraments, but Protestants had only two. They made the decision as to what should be a sacrament with three questions: 1. Did Christ command it? 2. Are there physical elements/symbols? 3. Is it available to all people. The two were/are: Baptism and Holy Commuinion. Now, I might argue that marriage, when it’s right, is in fact a Sacrament. And, prayers at the time of death are sacramental. But, you see the point.

Martin Luther started a movement that is still going on today. We all, sort of, argue every so often whether the church we are now located in is still the Church that is the body of Christ. And, all these different churches that spring up around us are attempts in the minds of those doing the churches an attempt to reform what has gone before.

Every generation believes that they are reforming the excesses of the generation before. The church is the same way.

But, in the church, we believe that the Holy Spirit is always refining and sharpening us. We all have the need to be reformed, made better. After the Protestant Reformation, there was a Counter Reformation in the Catholic Church that brought sweep changes. And, so it goes with the Spirit.

We celebrate that the voice of one monk, in the power of the Spirit, had the power to change the church and the world! Thanks be to God.

Blessings!
Dave Nichols








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